If you're serious about finding your forever person, your life partner, your future spouse, your “this is my person” then it’s time to start treating that goal with the love and consistency it deserves.

Healing from a traumatic relationship might feel impossible, especially when the scars of the past linger long after the relationship has ended. The emotional toll, the sense of betrayal, and the heavy weight of unresolved feelings can seem overwhelming. But as a dating coach, I can assure you—healing and moving forward is not only possible, it’s within your power.

Let’s talk about the “ick.” You know, that sudden, almost unexplainable feeling of being turned off by someone you were into just moments ago. Maybe it’s the way they pronounce a certain word or how they’re way too enthusiastic about their fantasy football league. Whatever it is, the ick can feel like a real roadblock—especially if you genuinely like this person otherwise. So, how do you move past it without throwing away a good thing? Let’s dive in.

Finding the right partner is one of the most meaningful decisions you’ll ever make. Yet, if you find yourself repeatedly in relationships that don’t work out, you may start to wonder if there’s something you’re missing. There are common patterns and mindsets that can lead us to choose partners who aren’t the best fit for us. Here, we’ll explore some reasons why you may be drawn to the wrong people—and how you can start making healthier choices for your heart and future.

For many men, the pressure to present a strong, composed exterior can lead to struggles with self-esteem and mental health. Sometimes maybe it all just seems unfair. This blog aims to provide insights and strategies for building self-confidence while navigating the complexities of dating and relationships. 

Dating is a universal experience, but how we approach it can vary greatly depending on our cultural backgrounds. As a relationship coach, understanding the cultural nuances behind how people date around the world can be key to building deeper connections and appreciating the complexities of love. 

Divorce is often a pivotal moment in one’s life, bringing with it a mix of emotions— I know….I have been there with the relief, sadness, fear, and hope. If you’re considering dating again after a divorce, it can feel both exciting and daunting. As a dating coach, I want to share some insights and strategies to help you navigate this new chapter with confidence and grace. 

When we talk about relationships, we often focus on finding the right person. But what if the secret to lasting love lies within yourself? As a dating and relationship coach, I firmly believe that self-love is the cornerstone of healthy, fulfilling partnerships. 

Why? Because the way you love yourself sets the standard for how others will love you.

Navigating love in a fast paced world is possible. Notice my coffee mug has caffeine in it and on it. Yes, we are all busy, but that does not mean you have to overlook love.

In today’s world, dating and politics often intersect in ways they never did before. For some, aligning politically with a partner is essential for compatibility, while others feel that love can transcend political differences. Let's explore how political views shape dating experiences, how to navigate relationships with differing political ideologies, and the role social media plays in this complex mix. 

Welcome to a world where dating doesn’t have to be complicated.

Starting a new relationship is super exciting, right? But if we get too caught up in gathering every bit of info about our partner, we might kill the connection before it even begins.

Here’s the thing: jealousy isn’t just about wanting what someone else has. It goes way deeper than that.

Have you ever thought about your relationship expectations? We all have them. Sometimes, we expect our partner to bring us the happiness and fulfillment we feel we're missing. But is that really fair?

Reconnecting with your South Asian parents can be a nightmare. But we are all adults now. Let’s communicate like it.

Interview with a relationship coaching client with South Asian Dating Coach, Varsha Mathur.

Are you single and looking to build a strong foundation for future relationships?

Being intentional about this process can lead to fulfilling connections down the road. While it's natural to desire companionship, taking the time to focus on yourself and your future can set the stage for healthier relationships.